Everything seemed to be very exciting at first. My parents
went to a party, and our babysitter for the evening was our great-grandmother.
Although we were respectively age nine, six and four, my siblings and I had
never had the honor of Grandma Eckman staying with us. It was a special
occasion, and although she was sometimes stern, we were excited. Mom even
dressed us up a little. Grandma Eckman dressed up, too.
Once our parents left, we pulled Grandma Eckman into our
playroom to show her our elaborate creations. My younger sister Missy had
designed a world with her Barbie dolls, and my older brother Jeff and I had
created a Matchbox cars domain.
Her response was not as expected. Instead of being excited,
she was distressed at what she termed a mess and commanded us to put the toys
away.
I wanted her to know that our intention was only to show her
our creativity and started to protest, but she continued without hearing me.
“You can’t possibly be playing with all these toys.”
Missy was holding a new doll, her once vivid excitement
transformed into a mass of tears.
For a moment, we all just stood there, but Grandma would
have none of that either.
“Let’s get busy,” she said, clapping her hands a few times, “and
then meet me in the kitchen in ten minutes. Then she left us, three miserable
children, to put away our excitement and pride, because for all we knew, it
didn’t serve her purpose.
Ten minutes later, as if she was watching the clock, she
called from the other end of the house, “How are you coming along?”
I confess that we weren’t working that hard at it. After her
rejection of our play world, we sort of lost interest in spending any time with
Grandma Eckman and delayed the clean up in order to finish by bedtime.
“Just fine, Grandma,” Jeff responded.
“Let’s step it up,” she said. “I’m waiting for
you.”
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