Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Vivian and Don Move in, part one

The house had to be perfect, Leta thought as she scrubbed the insides of the kitchen cupboards. While she had never been a sloppy housekeeper, she had rarely shown this much devotion to cleanliness, except for maybe her annual spring cleaning. However, the opportunity presenting itself to her called for an exceptional action.

A week earlier, her daughter Vivian visited her. In itself, this was not unusual. She and Vivian spent time together at least twice a week, and they spoke on the telephone frequently. Leta delighted in her three-year-old grandson Don. Both of their husbands were working. Leta’s husband Bob held a foreman position at the Spicer plant and Vivian’s husband Ed worked for an electronics company.

It was July1942, and ever since the attack by the Japanese on Pearl Harbor the previous December, U.S. participation in the war against the Axis powers was growing very quickly. Every day more men were signing up to serve and more were being shipped out to Europe and the Pacific. The desire to fight the Germans and Japanese was enveloping everyone they knew. Even Bob at age 48 was contemplating adding his name to the registration.

Vivian’s husband Edward had been for some time a member of a team of radio technology specialists that was working on communications devices for aircraft. Now his skills were being called upon to support the war effort. The U.S. had just launched its first air missions in Europe, and the plan was to continue participation in the War with many more. Edward and his team would spend the next several years in Washington, DC and various locations in Europe, as they continued to improve the radio technology.

During that time, Vivian and Don would live with Leta and Bob. The decision to cohabitate was as much an emotional one as a financial one. Since their marriage in 1936, Vivian and Edward had renting a house near his parents in Oregon Township. It was a one-bedroom that fit within their budget. While Edward was gone, Vivian and Don could have remained there, but Vivian didn’t want that.

When she called her mother, Vivian told her that she and Edward had a discussion and wondered if Vivian and Don might stay with them until Ed returned. Leta and Bob had plenty of room. When they married in 1937, she moved into his large three-bedroom house. Vivian proposed that she and Don would sleep in the guest room, assist with the housework and cooking, even pay rent. Everyone was cutting corners, and it seemed foolish to her thrifty daughter and son-in-law for mother and son to remain in their own rented location for an indeterminate time. Besides, now that the economy was improving their landlord had indicated he wanted to sell.

Bob agreed with the plan immediately. He was very fond of his stepdaughter and her family. Besides, a vivacious little boy around always picked up everyone’s spirits.

They would move in by the middle of August, and Leta wanted the house to be perfectly ready for them. Providing a clean and polished house was the least she could do for her daughter. She even helped Vivian clean the rental house to leave it in better condition than when she and Edward moved in. Leta also helped pack up their scant belongings, which would be stored in their attic until Vivian or Edward needed them.

On August 12, Vivian, Don and Edward moved in, as Edward was not to leave for Washington, D.C. until September. He had already made one trip during the summer, but returned temporarily before his complete immersion in his assignment.

One week after Edward left, Leta understood completely why it was important for her daughter to stay with her during the separation.


To be continued.

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