Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Early Days with Aaron and Florence, part two

During the first months that Leta lived with her brother Aaron and his family in 1929, she sometimes joined her brother during his evening’s work. He was a poker game dealer, a skill he acquired during his brief time in Reno, Nevada and the Southwest. These games were held in the backrooms of various illegal drinking establishments. While he was in the back room, she sat at the bar, drank whiskey and participated in pleasant conversations with the men who spent their evenings enjoying a drink or two before after a hard day’s work.

They mostly went to the Flat Iron, which was located a few blocks away. It was an inconspicuous place. The front windows were covered on the inside in black muslin. The exterior was covered in peeling paint. The parking lot, such as it was, was gravel. It looked like an abandoned shop of some kind. Two broken down automobiles always sat there, rusting in the changeable weather. Most of the guests parked in the farm equipment dealer’s lot across the street. The front door looked like it was boarded up, but it wasn’t. One needed only to knock, and someone would open it. The front area held fewer than two dozen merrymakers at a time. In the backroom, the proprietor set up a table large enough for six poker players. Aaron drove drive them, and then left Leta to her own devices, while he went into the backroom to deal the cards to the participants.

Leta sat at the bar. There were a few regulars she knew—mostly married men. Occasionally one brought his wife for an evening away from home and children. Two other women, both at least fifty years old, making them older than Leta, also came regularly. One of the women was unhappily married. Her husband worked in Michigan and only came home two weekends each month. When he was home, he expected her to be at his beck and call. When he was gone, she was responsible for caring for his invalid father, an unpleasant man made moreso by chronic arthritis. The other regular female patron was a widow, slowly drinking herself to nothingness. Most of the men were locals. They worked on farms or in small factories nearby. The card game drew some outsiders, but they did not stay in the bar long, unless the table was full and they had to wait until one of the players left to make a space available. These fellows, Leta found, were rather anxious about being there. They did not talk much to her. They kept one eye toward the door and one ear to the outside.

The Flat Iron had never been raided by the county sheriff or federal prohibition marshals.

Sometimes Leta left before Aaron did. A friend would drive her back to the house. Sometimes, when his night concluded, the poker game dissolved or he just became tired, her brother would collect her from the bar and drive her home. Sometimes Leta did not arrive home until a day or two later.

During her evening, Leta would strike up a conversation with another bar patron, and he would eventually invite her to a more private assignation. When this occurred, she would almost always acquiesce.

Over the first three months that she lived with Aaron, Florence and their girls, Leta made a steady shift; she entered a world of temporary male companionship. She found that during her drinking, flirtations and subsequent liaisons, she could disregard or suppress all of her grief, loneliness and solitude.

In November she learned that her children’s father married a woman named Eunice Powers, and she moved in with him, her children and his parents. They met, she was told, at a church function. Eunice pursued Ralph aggressively, and one day they went to the courthouse for the marriage certificate. Ralph’s mother was not pleased, but by this time, Ralph was working and supporting the family. With his children living there, he had become the head of the household.

Leta had been entertaining thoughts of spending Thanksgiving with her children. She was going to ask her brother and sister-in-law if she might invite them to have dinner with the family. She had not seen them since she took them to their father’s, and she finally felt stable and comfortable. She missed them. Then she learned about Ralph’s marriage. Her informer told her that the marriage took place in late October and that Ralph’s new wife had been married previously.

Leta was devastated. Not only had she given over the raising of her children to her first husband, but also he had gone and brought a new mother figure into the house. Ralph’s mother Ida was a grandmother, an entirely different function, but a woman her own age was definitely encroaching on mother territory. She was angry with Ralph for marrying the woman, and for waiting so long to do so. If he had married right after their divorce, when Vivian and Dale stilled lived with her, the woman would have remained a secondary character in their lives. They would not have seen her very often, not been in the place to develop much of a friendship with her, let alone a relationship. There would be no competition. This, however, was entirely different. Now, she—their mother—was the outsider. First, she put her children through the death of their beloved Albert, two terrible marriages, near poverty and living in a perilous neighborhood. Then, with no alternative, she abandoned them, because she could not provide what they needed. This she regretted every day, even as she recognized that this was for their benefit. More terrible, if not unforgivable, was that she had not seen or even spoken to them since the August day she left them. She heard stories and rumors from friends about their health and welfare, but personally, she had removed herself from their daily lives. She was no longer their mother, no longer the providing their primary care. She had become the woman who used to take care of them.

To be continued.

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